Friday, August 1, 2008

Grandmas Hands



GRANDMA'S HANDS

Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.

When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat I wondered if she was OK.

Finally, not really wanting to disturb her but wanting to check on her a t the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and
looked at me and smiled. "Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking," she said in a clear voice strong.

"I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK," I
explained to her.

"Have you ever looked at your hands," she asked. "I mean really looked at your hands?"

I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at
my hands as I tried to figure out the point she was making.

Grandma smiled and related this story:

"Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled shriveled and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life. "They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I crashed upon the floor.

They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child, my mother taught me to fold them in prayer. They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots. They held my husband and wiped my tears when he went off to war.

"They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent. They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son. Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone special.

They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook when I buried my parents and spouse.

"They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled neighbors, and shook in fists of anger when I didn't understand.

They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the rest of my body. They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried and raw. And to this day when not much of anything else of me works real well these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to fold in prayer.

"These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of life..

But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of Christ."

I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember God reached out and took my grandma's hands and led her home.

When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my children and husband I think of grandma. I know she has been stroked and caressed and held by the hands of God.

I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands upon my face.

When you receive this, say a prayer for the person who sent it to you, and watch God's answer to prayer work in your life. Let's continue praying for one another.
Passing this on to anyone you consider a friend will bless you both.

Passing this on to one not yet considered a friend is something Christ would do.

-- Author Unknown

A friend of mine sent me this and I teared up as I read it. How many times have we actually looked at our own hands, our childrens hands, our mother and grandmothers hands and thought about all that our hands have done for us? I had a neat experience at work today that I want to share. Polly, an 87 year old woman who used to volunteer many years ago in our ER came by to visit with me at work today. We talked and talked and then she happen to bring up her hands and she showed me how crippled they are. I immediatley thought of this email I had just received yesterday and I printed it off for her. She appreciated it a lot. I hope you enjoyed the story as much as I did.

6 comments:

Unknown said...

I really enjoyed this! Thanks for sharing! And thanks for all your nice comments on my blog:)

Brynn said...

That was the sweetest story ever. Thanks Chris, you always have such sweet things to share. Love you.

Elaine said...

That is so precious, it reminds me of the poem Shana read at Dad's funeral about these Hands. I remember sitting in church looking at my mom's hands thinking, "Wow, I wouldn't want my hands to look like that." Then one day many years ago, I looked down at my own hands while siting in church, they were my Moms. but then, it made me happy and proud. That message really says it all. Thanks for sharing.

Kayleen and Kay Sheppard said...

I, too, like Elaine, can remember looking at Mom's hands and thinking I wonder when my hands will start looking like that. It didn't matter to me how they looked, because I knew how many wonderful and thoughtful things she did for other people with her beautiful hands. I remember seeing how wrinkled they were getting to be and how her veins stood up on top. Mine are exactly like her's, only I'm sure I haven't helped nearly as many people as she did with my own. I am proud they look like hers though. Thanks for the story. It reminded me again, of how much Mom meant to others. Love ya.....

Tui said...

Very nice
jt

Shana said...

I love this too! Amen to everyones comments. It only makes us better people... thinking back how many hands those lives have touched! I hope that mine will touch many. Love you!